After feasting during the Christmas Season, many of us have committed ourselves to, or at least trying to, losing some weight as part of our New Year’s resolution. I have given up on new year’s resolutions a long time ago because I end up doing the opposite of what I resolved to do. It is very likely that if I made weight loss as my 2013 resolution, I would most likely end up 20 lbs heavier by the end of the year. From my experience, I can easily achieve this in a span of just 6 months!
I never had weight problems before the 40s set in. I thought going into my 30s was the beginning of my weight problems, but lo and behold, more weight had yet to be gained during the next decade of my life. In my 20s gaining 3 to 5 lbs could easily be blamed to bloating due to pre-menstrual period, or being hormonal that led to binge eating. The weight easily shed off after that time of the month passed. Now that I am past the reproductive stage in life, I have no excuse! On the other hand, I can always blame the aging process.
That is probably not a valid excuse while many of my friends (my age, and those even older) who were once on the heavier side and had once envied my small frame are losing weight and are in better shape than I am! Hmmmph with a stump of the feet! And they actually look great and not gaunt and shriveled.
For a good 4 years I was able to maintain a weight of 105lbs to 110lbs simply by walking about 20 blocks to and from work everyday! Since I didn’t have the discipline to go to the gym, and didn’t want to pay for something I knew I couldn’t commit to, I decided to incorporate my workout into my daily routine. This worked out just fine until life became too convenient. I moved to an apartment building located right above the train station. With this move, my walking significantly decreased by half. Without realizing it, and thinking that my metabolism was the same as when I was in my 20s, my weight increased within a span of 6 months. During a doctor’s visit, the nurse took my weight and to my surprise, I had gained 25 lbs. I don’t even remember gaining in 3 to 5 lbs increments! It seemed my weight jumped straight from 105lbs to 130lbs! The first thing I did was blame the weighing scale, I thought “that couldn’t be right, maybe it was supposed to read 115lbs. ” I wish! It was during this time when my clothes size was swinging between size 6 and 8, a significant change from the time I was buying size 2 and petite sizes in the beginning of that spring!
I noticed that in my photos that my curves had changed to two layers, with the breast as the first layer, and the belly as the second layer. Unfortunately, the second layer extended out further than the first layer.
Being surrounded by people who were into fitness made me think about getting into better shape! Then I started experiencing shortness of breath just by walking, and to think I am (or was) a walker! A little incline made it very difficult to walk and breathe at the same time. This is when the alert went off! According to the American Heart Association, shortness of breath is one of the symptoms of a heart attack, and is the number one killer of women! It was scary and disappointing to feel out of shape because I used have the stamina for sports, but now walking was becoming difficult. I knew I had to do something about it, unless I want to end up developing all the chronic diseases associated with aging, which my family is so prone to. Heart disease, diabetes mellitus, hypertension, etc, you name it, it all runs in the family.
Although I was more than 20 lbs heavier than what I was used to, my body mass index (BMI) was still within normal range but I was in the upper range of 23 (>18 = underweight, 25 and above = overweight). If I didn’t control my weight now, I knew I could end up overweight in next few months.
I initiated my weight loss in the later half of 2012 with a baseline weight of 137lbs. My weight would bounce back and forth from 137 to 135 lbs depending whether I was having a good day with my bowel movement. It was only after I started exercising that I began to lose some lbs. To date, I have lost about 12 lbs, and it has been slow, and a not so triumphant battle but atleast my weight trend is more on weight loss than weight gain.
Although it has been a slow process, I not only shed off some unwanted belly fat, I was able to build up stamina. I do not aspire to be as skinny as Taylor Swift, but at least I feel good that my BMI indicates normal weight for my height, and it has decreased from 23 to 21.5. I will not make recommendations on what one should do to lose weight but I did come up with some lessons learned. Some are obvious and common sense but putting it to practice could be quite challenging. One thing for sure, the most successful weight loss program that will keep you in shape is always a combination of diet and exercise.
1. Listen to your body and know what it is telling you. Are you experiencing physical or physiological changes that were not there before? Could these be symptoms of something? Does it have anything to do with my weight? My shortness of breath (SOB) was the first alert from my body telling me that I was out of shape. Knowing that SOB could be a sign or symptom of heart disease, I knew I had to get in shape. If there is something that you feel is not normal, talk to your doctor or a health professional. The bottom line is, keep track of your weight and maintain good health. Weight is a good indicator of your health. However, being fat or thin does not mean you are healthy.
2. Choose a diet that is right for you. There are many diets out there and you are free to try them all until you get things right. Sharon Osbourne lost 23 lbs in six weeks with the Atkins diet, while Jennifer Hudson has a new body thanks to Weight Watchers. But be aware that what worked for Sharon and Jennifer may not work for you. Note also that drastic weight loss in a short span of time is not sustainable and will most likely lead to weight gain twice as much as you had lost. The ideal weight loss is 1 lbs per week, but if you are obese, then ideal weight loss is 2 lbs per week. Find or follow a diet that will not leave you hungry nor weak that it will compromise your health. Aiming to be thin doesn’t mean you starve yourself, starvation and food deprivation is a drag and it does not make a successful weight loss program. Also, you will not be able to exercise if you are starved and do not have enough stored energy.
3. Portion control is the key. If you are not extremely overweight or obese, and you have no health risks such hypertension, kidney disorder, or liver disorder that require you to be on a therapeutic diet, you can eat whatever you want with proper portion control. Learn about serving size and be conscious of nutrition labels. Serving size does not always equate to how a food is packaged. For example a 10 oz bag of Frito Lays, or a 1 lb bag of M&Ms, or a box of Chips Ahoy cookies are not serving sizes! A serving size is usually 13 to 16 pcs of potato chips (yeah, who counts the chips while eating!?), or a 2 pcs of cookies out of a pack of a dozen. Check the nutrition labels at the back of the package to help you count calories per serving size and know your required daily caloric requirement. The usual caloric requirement for adults is about 1800 to 2000 calories depending or sex and age, and physical activity. Let this be your guide to your daily intake, if you exceed 500 calories a day, do not have an active lifestyle, then you may be at risk to being over weight.
4. Not too many realize that fluid intake contributes to daily caloric intake, except for water and coffee. Although it is always good to drink plenty of fluids, whether in the from of coffee, tea, or fruit juice, be conscious of smoothies, lattes, and coffees with whip cream, and fruit juices, which are usually high in sugars and fats. Wine is known to have health benefits but it also provides calories, especially if you take in more than 6 fl oz. We enjoy good wine with a good meal, and when this combination is too good, we tend to eat and drink more.
5. Similar to your diet, choose a physical activity that you enjoy. Zumba is very popular, and everyone I know enjoyed losing weight by doing Zumba. Unfortunately, this was not for me because I was never well coordinated. I wouldn’t enjoy it if I wasn’t good at it. I have always admired people who run, and I like the rhythm of running, it is constant and it only requires one choreography! However, if Zumba, ball room dancing, or even weight lifting is something you are interested in, give it a try! Find a workout that is most suited for you.
6. Start slow on your exercise to build your stamina, especially if you have not exercised for a very long time or are not used to exercising at all. If you have a history of heart disease, consult your doctor before indulging in high intensity physical activities. When I decided to exercise, I knew I would not enjoy exercising if it constantly reminded me that I was out of shape, and would have probably quit. So I started with hula hoops for 20 min everyday (although the recommended time was for 15 min), then moved to stationary bike. After a few weeks with the stationary bike, I added walking on the trend mill. I gradually increased the speed of the trend mill until I started running. Because I was able to gradually rebuild my stamina, I now get more out of my exercising by running and doing the stationary bike.
7. Exercise does not have to be high intensity. According to the a study conducted by The University of North Carolina Gilling School of Global Public Health (June 2012), physical activity can reduce the risk of breast cancer in women by 30%. This number was observed among women who either did moderate or intense physical activity. The Center for Disease control recommends 150 minutes per week of physical activity, which can be broken into 10 minutes at a time (http://www.cdc.gov/physicalactivity/everyone/measuring/index.html). Even general gardening is considered moderate activity. Health Watch on CBS reported that sitting while watching TV for an hour reduces life expectancy by 22 minutes, even if you exercise. The message is “move around”. Take the stairs, walk instead of driving, if possible, or park the car farther to allow you some walking time, and get up from your chair to get a cup of water instead of keeping a large water bottle on your desk.
8. Weight loss requires change in behavior. Be wary if a product, either a diet program or some form of pill that tells you can lose weight without changing your lifestyle. Especially if it offers a quick fix to your weight problem. No matter how you decide to proceed with your weight loss, some lifestyle changes are necessary. Initiating or incorporating physical activity is one change, eating the right portion size (from big to small portions) may require some will power and self-control.
9. Set your goals. One of my motivation to lose weight was to look good for a friend’s wedding where I would be one of the bridesmaids, alongside other girls who were in their 30s, but looked like they were in their skinny 20s. After the wedding, then what? Although physical appearance is always part of our goal to losing weight, the wedding was not a very meaningful goal, especially not sustainable, and not long term. In the short term, set your goals for your workout. If you are doing a 10 minute moderate workout a day, try increasing the work out to 20 minutes a day. Once you have built enough stamina, and are actually enjoying your workout, try to gradually shift from moderate to a more intense (but not necessarily) vigorous physical activity.
10. When working out, make sure to have a good pair of sneakers! And the right one too. Make sure your shoes provide good support and cushion to avoid injury. Injuries to your skeletal system and muscular system takes a long time to heal, and usually do not heal completely. This is will hamper your workout which makes up half of your weightloss program.